Monday, September 28, 2009

THINK ABOUT IT

  • I had to write this.. this blog was the only way to express myself.. according to me this is something very important n applicable to most of us
  • Its for the first n last time that I am not requesting people for comments… though if you wanna say something, you can always comment…
  • You may call it boring, you might laugh at this, but I don’t care...I had to write this n I consider it to be the best post on my blog so far..

Now lets begin…… just think of your daily life… what all things come to your mind… college, friends, campus, exams,minors, majors, relationships, crushes, movies, sports, your bf/gf,events n fests n competitions… a hell lot of other things.. n then of course even your family….
Now jus think of somebody who always cares for you, someone who loves you more than anyone else.. people who always think of your happiness… very obviously.. your mom n dad… your parents…


We being teenagers, being college students are always busy n preoccupied with something or the other ….it was a few weeks back, when I was suffering from viral fever that I realized that I was somehow neglecting my parents….. many of us do so…taking this as an excuse that we are busy….. but don’t we take out time to watch movies, don’t we take out time for blogging, chatting, for hanging out with friends, for talking to our friends for hours n hours…so cant we jus take out some time for our parents too???


Yes we love them, we all love our parents…. but sometimes you feel that they never understand you.. you feel that they keep scolding you unnecessarily….you feel that they treat you like kids even when you are grown ups.. even when you are upset, you always feel that it would be better to talk to friends rather than talking to parents… this might be because we think we are smarter than them n they feel that they are wiser than us…..this is probably the so called generation gap…. due to the fact that even we don’t try to understand them…


Well if you feel that you are sensible enough to take your own decisions, you can always do so.. but don’t ignore your parents just because their thoughts, their ideologies are different…at this age, most of the people feel like spending more n more time with their friends.. but your mom n dad love you the most n they need u the most… talk to them, talk to them about your college, your friends, the problems that you face, anything at all.. my dad feels really happy whenever I talk to him…tell them that even you are concerned about them, talk to them about their health, their job n other things related to their life…there shouldn’t be any communication gap… if you are a hosteller, you should call them often, n whenever you visit them,don’t waste time sleeping n watching tv n on internet… spend time with your parents instead…


These were a few things that I had learnt, I had realized, I wanted to share n that I am going to follow…

This blog is dedicated to my parents, my family n my friends…. I love you all n I need you all…

Next blog will be a song....... coming soon

Sonia Bhatia

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6 comments:

Kshipra said...

hi sonia just read this topic of yours and i believe that some incident that may have recently taken place in your life must have made you write this..though this is your personal advice to anyone who reads it,i still believe that people of your/my age know their priorities quite well as we are mature people...i mean c'mon grow up..even i love my parents more than my own self n i devote them enough time to them(yes i do)..but dont you think this is too cliched a topic????i mean why preach something like this??
this is what i feel ...i dont know whether u may be able ti understand my point of view as well.

Sonia said...

hey kshipra,

well first of all i dont want to preach anything... trust me,i ve written this for myself.. i jus wanted to share this coz i feel that there must be many ppl who would be able to relate to it.

yes we are mature ppl, sensible enough to take our own decisions... but there are times when we are so very preoccupied with some or the other important or unimportant stuff that actually forget to devote time to them n then this communication gap comes up...

as far as it being a cliched topic is concerned.. u see there might be thousands of blogs regarding relationships, movies, sports, poems,stories.... is type ka blog hardly koi hoga... moreover i ve written this in a casual style..

don think that m tryin to argue or somethin... i really respect each n every comment on my blog :-)

sonia

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