Thursday, August 18, 2011

ZENDAGI MIGZARA (Life Goes On) - Part 2

[As I say, the best words by Khaled Hosseini after 'For you, a thousand times over' are 'Zendagi Migzara' (Life Goes On)..
The last time when I had written a blog with the same title, it was meant for people who think way too much about the future, with fear in their minds and hearts..This post, talks about different situations, that are faced by many, but it comes up with the same message, the most beautiful thing about life is, that, it moves on..]

Well, read the following lines, and think of those situations when you feel that these are absolutely true..
'Life is a bitch..for the moment you realize you've learnt how to live, it changes completely, for whenever you experience real happiness, it snatches all the reasons behind your happiness'

We feel so whenever we fail to achieve something that we wanted badly, we feel so whenever we lose someone close to us..We feel so whenever we face a tragedy in life.. As I say, nothing at all is predictable.. life is always unexpected.. A single episode can be a turning point for you, it can change your life completely..No matter what, you cannot alter what destiny has in store for you..
As they say, experience is a hard teacher for it gives the test first and the lesson later.. One feels devastated and frustrated in such situations..One forgets optimism, one forgets conscience.. Patience and acceptance are the only two things you can think of as the feasible solutions..Well, as most of us know,the one n only thing that can heal, that always heals is time.. We ought to give time time..

Now, the fact that life always goes on no matter what, does not mean that life gives you second chances..Life is a wicked bitch again..We are only given today and never promised tomorrow.. Every little thing that makes you smile is precious in its own way, every moment that makes you feel special is special in itself.. Every person who does something to make you happy, who feels worried when you are sad, deserves that love n your care from you the same way..If you wish to express your feelings to someone, do it today itself, for tomorrow, you might not get a chance to be with that loving person, to enjoy those special moments n those precious smiles..

Yes, life is long for it goes on n on n on.. for it comes up with endless experiences, countless people, uncountable tears and uncountable smiles...but then, at the same time, life is very short, because when you look back, all you can recall is those 'turning points'.. Life can be considered as a summation of all those episodes, all those changes.. Think of it once, if you're not accepting those changes, you're not accepting your life, you're merely escaping..

When one thinks of his past after a long time, these changes do not matter.. for he had been strong enough to face the tragedies, for he had cried and even his tears had dried on their
own.. for he had learnt how to live, and with the passage of time, he had moved on, just the way life always moves on.. Ultimately, its only happiness that one can think of n recall.. Happiness is recursive, one finds happiness in happy memories..over and over again..

Well, I just wrote this blog to dedicate a message to all those people, who think of running away and escaping from life, who spoil their present for what their past had been, who curse life for the sad phases..

' Life is a mixed bag.. Steal all those moments that make you happy.. Make sure you find people who truly love you, and never let them go away.. No matter how badly it tests your patience, no matter how wicked it may become at times, life does move on.. It might not give you another chances.. but it gives you new reasons to be happy, new people to meet, new experiences to enjoy'

I started this blog with the sentence, 'Life is a bitch'... I feel like putting an end to it by saying.. no matter how hard, no matter how wicked it may seem.. Accept it the way it is, make the most of it today, live it, love it, enjoy it, celebrate it and face it !!

I am in love with Prasoon Joshi's lines, "hai ye toh ik jashan, tu thirakne de kadam.. abhi saanson me hai dum, abhi chalne de sitam" .. for I do know that destiny has a role to play in all walks of life..but these lines make me feel, I can face all challenges, I can conquer all fears.. and the mere feeling makes me wanna say, "Life is... actually... beautiful"

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thisisankur said...

Jab jab dard ka baadal chaya
Jab ghum ka saya lehraya
Jab aansoo palkon tak aya
Jab yeh tanha dil ghabraya

Humne dil ko yeh samjhaya
…Dil aakhir tu kyun rota hai
Duniya mein yunhi hota hai

Yeh jo gehre sannate hain
Waqt ne sabko hi baante hain
Thoda ghum hai sabka qissa
Thodi dhoop hai sabka hissa
Aankh teri bekaar hi nam hai
Har pal ek naya mausam hai
Kyun tu aise pal khota hai
Dil aakhir tu kyun rota hai

Sushmit said...

nicely written, but reminds me of 2008 :|

Anonymous said...

I've read this blog post at least 10 times n its awsm..

Every person who does something to make you happy, who feels worried when you are sad, deserves that love n your care from you the same way..If you wish to express your feelings to someone, do it today itself, for tomorrow, you might not get a chance to be with that loving person, to enjoy those special moments n those precious smiles..

wel i knw a gal n she's my best frnd.. 6 saalon se..ur blog made me realize i cant live without her coz aisa kabhi socha hi ni ki wo na ho toh kya hoga..aaj laga ki i'm so lucky..i wont let her go now

sonia, i don knw u..m one of your followers, but i can't reveal my identity here..sry..and thanku so much for writing this..

aditi rastogi said...

as always, made for a gr8 read:)

Sonia said...

@ Ankur n Aditi
Thanks ! :)

@ Sush
2008 :-/
hmmm.. I guess i know a bit bout it.. baki sari details tu batayega ab alag se :P

Sonia said...

@ anonymous
OMG !!I've written so many blogs, received so many comments..
but aaj tak kabhi itni khushi nahi hui kisi comment ko read kar ke :)
Go n express yourself.. n yeah! never let her go :)
Wish you all the best :)


Lifes an open road. And to keep drivin on it..with open windows and music for the sole purpose. You stop - you think abt the road gone by - you screwed.

Nice post....

P.S. Thanks for the comment on my blog. Nice to know someone so similar to you. Do write about marriage..would love to read that one :)


Read your post on Delhi Metro - ladies coach. 'The Aunties' have one more 'enemy' undoubtedly :) . And good to see Delhiites blogging about their city. Have seen too few posts like that.

Kadamb Kaluskar said...

Keep writing
Best wishes

Sonia said...

@ DG

Thanks for the comment.. Loved it !
N yeah.. I would like to pick a line ..
Nice to know someone so similar to you.

@ Kadamb

Thank you !

Vasila said...

hi sonia....just loved ur blog...its tons of energies going through ur posts...hope this shall help me in improvising check out mine n suggest to improvise...

Vasila said...
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Vasila said...

Hope u would not mind if i copied some of ur lines coz they r too gud...if thts ok with u...

Lakshay Nanda said...

Super likes for the Zindagi Migzara ka yeh classy abstract. :)

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Sonia said...

@ vasila

thank you so much for your great comments n appreciation :)
but i'm sorry, i can't let anyone copy my lines or blogs, in fact, this is again blogging case if you're new to blogs..
i'll comment on your blogs soon :)

thanks :D

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